I work in the third sector, spend some time each week at my boyfriend's house, am an active member of a culture group in London, and spend as much time on my allotment in Epsom as possible. I don't drive, love music but I don't expect anyone else to hear it. I don't expect to have my boyfriend stay over. Most of my social life is outside the home. I don't mind being texted and don't answer the phone to unknown numbers. I'm friendly, helpful and like old things and cats. Privacy is of paramount importance to me and I certainly respect other's privacy. I'm messy in my own space but considerate and tidy in common areas.